It doesn't seem fair that a father as wonderful as my husband should only get to have one special day dedicated to him. So instead of Father's Day, we had Father's Day Week. Every day for the 6 days leading up to Father's Day plus Father's Day itself, we had a surprise waiting for him in the basement (his man cave).
Besides the surprises I thought up for him, each day I had the girls each do an art project for him. They LOOOVED this and spent a good amount of time every afternoon on their surprise for their daddy.
They turned out really cute!
I hung them in the basement above the stairs so it was the first thing Ben would see when he opened the door to the basement every evening.
Day 1 of Father's Day Week: Me and the girls spent ALL DAY long in the basement, sorting, organizing, throwing things away, dusting, scrubbing, vacuuming, turning Ben's man cave into a wonderful oasis for him. I wrote him a note explaining to him about the 7 Days of Father's Day, and another note about what we did for him that day. I told him that during Father's Day Week he would not be in charge of putting Mercedes to sleep. That meant starting at 9 pm he was free to retreat and relax in his man cave and have some extra man time all to himself to watch movies or TV shows, read, sleep, play video games, whatever he wanted to do all by himself.
Day 2 of Father's Day Week: Me and the girls walked to the store and bought a bunch of Ben's favorite gluten-filled snacks. Ben's note of the day said that I appreciate that he puts up with living in a gluten free house (any gluten Ben wants to eat he has to eat at work because it makes me sick to have it in the house) so I wanted him to have a stash of his favorite snacks to eat while he relaxed in his man cave that week. I reminded him to make extra sure to de-contaminate the basement when he was finished. =-)
Day 3 of Father's Day Week: I set up a "man spa" for Ben, complete with coconut oil and a brown sugar scrub (1/4 cup brown sugar, 1/4 cup coconut oil, 1 tsp vanilla extract), towels for heat pads and a cozy air mattress, down blanket and down pillow bed. I gave him a full body massage after the girls went to sleep that night. His note said that I appreciate that he works physically hard for us every day so I wanted to help his body and muscles to relax.
Day 4 of Father's Day Week: I made plans with my brother (who is one of Ben's best friends) to hang out with Ben that night. Ben's note said that I appreciate that he prioritizes his family over hanging out with his man friends, so tonight was Guy's Night Out, to have fun, do whatever he wanted to do and stay out as late as he wanted.
Day 5 of Father's Day Week: This day was sort of an IOU date night since I'd planned on having my mom come over to babysit so Ben and I could spend some time together but my mom ended up getting sick and wasn't able to watch the girls. Ben's note said that I appreciate how the girls come first in our family and he's always so patient and understanding when we don't get to spend enough time together because the girls are being so high maintenance.
Day 6 of Father's Day Week: I made Ben peach crumble bars by scratch. He's been asking me to make peach bars for almost 4 years now (ever since we got married) and I, slacker of a wife that I am, have never taken the time to make them for him. Poor guy. His note said that I appreciate that he goes along with my crazy dietary needs (gluten free and usually on the Paleo diet) and he helps me with the grocery shopping and the cooking when he's home, so I wanted to take some time to make him a special homemade treat. By the way, these things are INCREDIBLY delicious. My new favorite dessert!
Day 7 of Father's Day Week: After church on Father's Day, Ben received a note that said today was his free day to do whatever he wanted. He could take a nap, watch a movie, go shopping, hang out with his buddies, go Frisbee golfing, whatever he felt like, but no family allowed. He chose to go see a movie at the theaters which he has only done a handful of times since Mercedes was born. When he got back, I made him banana, peanut butter, chocolate chip pancakes with a side of vanilla ice cream.
*Pancake recipe: 6 bananas, mashed. 6 eggs. 1 cup peanut butter. 1 bag milk chocolate chips. Fry just like regular pancakes.
Our 7 Days of Father's Day was a HUGE success and Ben felt very loved, spoiled and appreciated by the end of it. Ben asked if this was going to be a new Father's Day tradition. I think yes. He deserves it!
We love you, Ben!